Boss Lady 101
I know why you’re here. And I’m happy for that. You may be feeling overwhelmed, overburdened, confused, annoyed, frustrated. Or maybe not, and you just want some tools to navigate your life and take back your power seamlessly and peacefully.
Either way, I’ve been exactly where you are. I could plot the course on a map from the moment it all started, to when I realized what was going on, to when I realized what was REALLY going on and I was responsible for it and responsible for where I was going, to where I am now.
Sometimes when you share your truth, or any truth, it just feels better. There is nothing to be ashamed of or afraid of, because, my dear internet friend, YOU ARE NOT ALONE. In fact, you are in some pretty damn good company with plenty of compassionate, smart, successful, wonderful people who hit an existential speed bump on their road of life.
When I was a kid, I had an incredibly vivid imagination and loved the unseen. I gave everything personalities and voices - all things in nature, inanimate objects- you name it- I had a persona for it. There always seemed something beyond just the physical aspect, an essence that was present. I kinda felt like a weirdo because of this uber imagination of mine, and would sometimes joke that my mother smoked and drank heavily when I was in the womb. Of course she didn’t, and that statement mortified her. I digress.
I have always been interested in astrology and the psychic arts, meditation and mindfulness. In college I studied psychology and could’ve earned a degree in it, but switched to Philosophy. It’s more my speed. Do have a point here. My point is… I thought I was woke! I was so fucking disillusioned. I didn’t know myself- only what I thought people thought of me is how I labeled and identified myself. I was living a life that was what I perceived what others perceived of me and how I wanted them to think of me and how I wanted them to regard me. It was shrouded in niceties and illusions. I don’t want to be too hard on myself here, but throw that baby out with the bathwater, because if I can’t keep it real with myself than who can I keep it real with? There’s some power in this…. People will treat you the way you believe they will treat you and how you believe you deserved to be treated.
Why? Because EIYPO . Say whaaaaat? Everyone Is You Pushed Out. Meaning: People and experiences have no choice but to show up the way you believe they will.
For example: Do you believe that a romantic interest is going to ghost you? Poof! Ghosted! Think everything in life is tough? Guess what, you gonna struggle! Do you believe everyone at work hates you? Your coworkers are gonna give you slack. So please….please! If you are going to use your thoughts, use them for good. How do you do that? Get my free ebook, and in 7 days, your mindset will be reset and you will be well on your way to being the Boss Bitch of your reality.
